StopSurrogacyNowUK✓

@WombsNotForRent

Launched in 2019. Here to fight against UK proposals on law reform and raise awareness of the darker side of #surrogacy.

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  1. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    "At 35 weeks I lost the baby and my womb. I ended up losing 3 litres of blood and needed an emergency hysterectomy. This is what can happen." This was a UK surrogacy arrangement in a family and the woman thought she was helping. This woman now considers herself lucky to be alive.
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  2. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    We have been through some of the episodes of the Who's Your Daddy podcast so you don't have to. Broadly topics covered (or complaints logged) are how long it takes to match, how expensive #surrogacy is, what happens when a woman decides not to continue, miscarriage, how men apparently experience Postpartum Depression, the challenges of caring for newborn twins (born prematurely at just 25 weeks), simultaneous surrogacy pregnancies and triplet pregnancy. Admittedly, we are not even halfway through and no women have been featured as yet, but here's a UK couple discussing how they did two hybrid 'journeys' moving two women from the UK to the US for implantation of embryos made from a third woman's eggs.
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    This Commissioning Father mocks a newborn as he roots to latch and breastfeed. We think this is supposed to be funny? We’re not laughing.
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  3. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    This Commissioning Father mocks a newborn as he roots to latch and breastfeed. We think this is supposed to be funny? We’re not laughing.
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  4. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    “Proponents of surrogacy say that the birth mother is paid for her “services,” but this is blatantly untrue. If she miscarries or has an abortion, she will most likely not be paid. It is the product—namely, the child—that she is paid for.” Another excellent piece from @FairerSexFD, this time from veteran feminist campaigner Renate Klein; a comprehensive update on Australia’s #lawreform as well as a clear summary of what human rights actually exist, as opposed to the claims made of there being a human right to a baby. (TLDR: there isn’t.) So thrilled to see the controversial practice of #surrogacy being exposed in this journal for sexual realist feminism.
    Fairer Disputations @FairerSexFD
    "The truth is this: every cute baby is a stolen baby that leaves an abandoned mother behind..."
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  5. Fairer Disputations@FairerSexFD
    "The truth is this: every cute baby is a stolen baby that leaves an abandoned mother behind..."
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  6. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    #surrogacy undeniably involves #Eugenics, along with the labelling of babies born with a medical condition as ‘defective’. From choosing the DNA your child will have from #donorconception to cases like this one, it’s clear to see this is Baby Shopping.
    Discourteous woman @Permanentlypis1
    @RoisinMichaux Indeed, this is what triggered my interest in knowing more about commercial surrogacy and just how disgusting the whole thing is.
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  7. Discourteous woman@Permanentlypis1
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    @RoisinMichaux Indeed, this is what triggered my interest in knowing more about commercial surrogacy and just how disgusting the whole thing is.
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  8. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    Another #humantrafficking case has been reported this month, this time in Cambodia. Police in Phnom Penh have detained one Chinese woman suspected of organising the operation and four Vietnamese women. Cambodia banned commercial #surrogacy in 2016 following an influx of agencies which moved their operations after other countries introduced restrictions. At the time, estimates suggested that as many as 50 different agencies and brokers were operating there. Subsequent raids between 2016-2024 found approx 100 pregnant surrogate mothers. This brings our count of human trafficking in surrogacy, since 2018, to 40.
    StopSurrogacyNowUK @WombsNotForRent
    “The case began in 2024 following an anonymous report to a national hotline for reporting suspected cases of human trafficking and exploitation. The investigation found that some of the women had previously contacted the clinics as egg donors before being connected with people seeking a surrogate. Nine individuals – doctors, administrative staff, psychologists and lawyers – were initially investigated in relation to 14 cases involving 13 women. A separate federal investigation in Buenos Aires is examining a similar alleged scheme: prosecutors identified at least 49 surrogacy cases sharing features with the case that triggered that inquiry.” This may be unrelated but in 2024 we submitted 7 examples of the movement of babies across borders to the Procuraduría de Trata y Explotación de Personas (Argentinian department which handles human trafficking and exploitation).
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    “The case began in 2024 following an anonymous report to a national hotline for reporting suspected cases of human trafficking and exploitation. The investigation found that some of the women had previously contacted the clinics as egg donors before being connected with people seeking a surrogate. Nine individuals – doctors, administrative staff, psychologists and lawyers – were initially investigated in relation to 14 cases involving 13 women. A separate federal investigation in Buenos Aires is examining a similar alleged scheme: prosecutors identified at least 49 surrogacy cases sharing features with the case that triggered that inquiry.” This may be unrelated but in 2024 we submitted 7 examples of the movement of babies across borders to the Procuraduría de Trata y Explotación de Personas (Argentinian department which handles human trafficking and exploitation).
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  10. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    StopSurrogacyNowUK
    RT @RoisinMichaux: Dutch Prime Minister Rob Jetten is a walking billboard for a plan to sever biology from legal motherhood. Interview with Lydia Daniel. See bio. @lyd20211
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  11. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    “The moment we recategorize it as a defect awaiting an engineering fix, we’ve already decided something enormous about what a woman’s body is for, and what happens to her when it doesn’t perform on schedule… A culture that cannot tolerate an unresolved sorrow will always reach for a mechanism instead of a companion, because the mechanism promises to make the sorrow stop, and the companion only promises to stay.” Excellent assessment of the IVF industry, #surrogacy, Restorative Reproductive Medicine (RRM) and NaPro Technology in @FairerSexFD from @JenniferLahl. Truly, this one blew us away. “Nonetheless, every one of these transactions accepts the premise that a woman’s body is raw material for somebody else’s outcome, and that premise does not stay contained to a single transaction once it is granted. It is the same premise now funding the frontier that would remove her altogether.”
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    Tons of great content by some serious thinkers. And me ☺️
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  12. JLahl✓@JenniferLahl
    Tons of great content by some serious thinkers. And me ☺️
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  13. Olivia Maurel✓@maurel_olivia
    🇪🇸 SPAIN. A young Peruvian woman was allegedly recruited online to become a surrogate for €20,000. She was shipped to Spain. She agreed to surrogacy through artificial insemination…But artificial insemination was too expensive for the couple. So, according to prosecutors, they demanded SEX instead. What followed was allegedly a nightmare of RAPE, SEXUAL EXPLOITATION, VIOLENCE, THREATS and CAPTIVITY. Prosecutors are now seeking more than 70 YEARS in prison for each accused. This is surrogacy.
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    StopSurrogacyNowUK
    RT @maurel_olivia: The Hastings Center is hosting a discussion on the ETHICS of surrogacy. Oh the irony… One of the speakers is linked to Growing Generations. Remember that agency? The one involved in a $4.05 MILLION settlement after litigation concerning twins, one of whom died and the other suffered serious medical complications. The same agency whose CEO faced a lawsuit alleging unwanted SEXUAL advances and retaliation against a male employee (and also sent pictures of himself in bondage attire 🤮). But apparently, we’re discussing ethics.
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  15. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    In the language of the #surrogacy and #donorconception, this would be referred to as 'Natural Insemination' (also known as unprotected sex, if non-consensual, it's rape). Prosecutors in this case raise the question that the alleged criminal acts could constitute #humantrafficking and #sexualexploitation.
    Olivia Maurel @maurel_olivia
    🇪🇸 SPAIN. A young Peruvian woman was allegedly recruited online to become a surrogate for €20,000. She was shipped to Spain. She agreed to surrogacy through artificial insemination…But artificial insemination was too expensive for the couple. So, according to prosecutors, they demanded SEX instead. What followed was allegedly a nightmare of RAPE, SEXUAL EXPLOITATION, VIOLENCE, THREATS and CAPTIVITY. Prosecutors are now seeking more than 70 YEARS in prison for each accused. This is surrogacy.
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  16. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    Returning to this from Argentina, after receiving some advice, we share further information on the 7 Examples, but with no identifying details: Example 1 - a couple planned to return home with a newborn but postponed their departure for fear of being caught at the border as no travel authorisation had been obtained from the surrogate mother. They planned to cross the border with the surrogate mother in case the police asked questions. Example 2 - a couple planned to return to their home with the baby but the surrogate mother’s travel authorisation had not even been requested. Example 3 - a couple arrived in Argentina to collect a baby and had not departed by their planned date. One of the commissioning fathers was reportedly on paternity leave, despite not being the child’s genetic or legally recognised father and he faced a potential employment issue if he did not return to work. Example 4 - a couple left Argentina by travelling by boat to one country, then flying to another, before returning to their home country to avoid questions at immigration. Example 5 - a couple travelled overland to exit Argentina before continuing their journey for the same reasons. Example 6 - a single woman planned to marry the surrogate mother, forcing her into a same-sex marriage, as a means of facilitating the child’s departure from Argentina. Example 7 - a single woman left Argentina with a child having followed a similar strategy. In several of the above examples, foreign commissioning parents were given Argentinian SIM cards by the agencies, in case the police seized their foreign phones. This suggests to us there were expectations of questions being asked so ‘solutions’ were put in place to facilitate the trafficking of a newborn babies. Do you see it yet?
    StopSurrogacyNowUK @WombsNotForRent
    “The case began in 2024 following an anonymous report to a national hotline for reporting suspected cases of human trafficking and exploitation. The investigation found that some of the women had previously contacted the clinics as egg donors before being connected with people seeking a surrogate. Nine individuals – doctors, administrative staff, psychologists and lawyers – were initially investigated in relation to 14 cases involving 13 women. A separate federal investigation in Buenos Aires is examining a similar alleged scheme: prosecutors identified at least 49 surrogacy cases sharing features with the case that triggered that inquiry.” This may be unrelated but in 2024 we submitted 7 examples of the movement of babies across borders to the Procuraduría de Trata y Explotación de Personas (Argentinian department which handles human trafficking and exploitation).
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  17. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    🇦🇺News from Australia; The New South Wales Legislative Council has released a report entitled 'Fertility support and assisted reproductive treatment' and it includes #surrogacy. As with the Hague Conference on Private International Law, which abandoned its 15-year effort in March, a consensus could not be reached. The NSW committee could not agree on a way forward for reforms, to include pre-birth parentage orders and 'altruistic' surrogacy. Given that the report from Australian Law Reform Commission is expected on 18th November, this is quite a blow to #lawreform of surrogacy in Australia.
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  18. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    “You and your husband just had a baby. Congratulations, yeah. How old? How old is the baby?” One thing is for sure, we do not need ChatGPT to know that it wasn’t Sam Altman or husband Oliver Mulherin who had the baby.
    Ahmad Malay 💎🔊 @MalayAhmad
    Jimmy Fallon asks Sam Altman if he uses ChatGPT to raise the baby he has with his husband, and his answer is hilarious Jimmy Fallon: “You, you and your husband just had a baby. Congratulations, yeah. How old? How old is the baby?” Sam Altman: “Eight month old?” Jimmy Fallon: “Are you loving him?” Sam Altman: “So much. I have no non-cliched thing to say, but it is by far so much better than anything anyone tells you. I just so incredibly happy.” Jimmy Fallon: “And do you use ChatGPT when, when raising your baby?” Sam Altman: “I do. I mean I feel kind of bad about it because I, we have this like genius level at everything, intelligence sitting there like waiting to unravel the mysteries of humanity.” “And I'm like, why my kid stop dropping his pizza on the floor and laughing?” “So I feel like I'm not asking a good enough question.” “But it is, I don't know. I cannot imagine having gone through like figuring out how to raise a newborn without ChatGPT. Clearly people did it for a long time, no problem.”
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  19. Ahmad Malay 💎🔊✓@MalayAhmad
    Jimmy Fallon asks Sam Altman if he uses ChatGPT to raise the baby he has with his husband, and his answer is hilarious Jimmy Fallon: “You, you and your husband just had a baby. Congratulations, yeah. How old? How old is the baby?” Sam Altman: “Eight month old?” Jimmy Fallon: “Are you loving him?” Sam Altman: “So much. I have no non-cliched thing to say, but it is by far so much better than anything anyone tells you. I just so incredibly happy.” Jimmy Fallon: “And do you use ChatGPT when, when raising your baby?” Sam Altman: “I do. I mean I feel kind of bad about it because I, we have this like genius level at everything, intelligence sitting there like waiting to unravel the mysteries of humanity.” “And I'm like, why my kid stop dropping his pizza on the floor and laughing?” “So I feel like I'm not asking a good enough question.” “But it is, I don't know. I cannot imagine having gone through like figuring out how to raise a newborn without ChatGPT. Clearly people did it for a long time, no problem.”
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  20. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    **Update** on another US scandal uncovered in 2023 by @FingerLakes1: "Woman accused of forging documents to arrange a surrogacy without her husband’s knowledge has pleaded guilty to three misdemeanor charges." MaryBeth Lewis, a 69 year old nurse from NYC already had 13 children (including children born from donated gametes) when she commissioned twins through #surrogacy using donor embryos. She allegedly forged her husband's signature on legal documents and impersonated him during a court hearing to secure parental rights. The twins were placed in foster care during the legal proceedings. Since then, the children have been returned to the care of Mr and Mrs Lewis while the foster parents continue to contest the outcome. The New York Times is paywalled so we share this for more background:
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  21. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    To attend the Book launch for In Search of My Mother by @maurel_olivia , an adult born through #surrogacy, please RSVP to stopsurrogacynowuk@gmail.com by 10th November. 📅 Thursday 12 November 6–8pm 📍 The Owl Bookshop, 207-209 Kentish Town Road, London NW5 2JU
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    Spinifex Press @spinifexpress
    "We must be prepared to see surrogacy for what it is: the objectification of women's bodies, the deprivation of surrogate mothers' freedom, and the falsification of their consent." - Olivia Maurel, In Search of My Mother
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    "We must be prepared to see surrogacy for what it is: the objectification of women's bodies, the deprivation of surrogate mothers' freedom, and the falsification of their consent." - Olivia Maurel, In Search of My Mother
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  23. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    This Europol investigation brings our total count of reported cases of #HumanTrafficking in #surrogacy to 39, (since 2018). This operation identified 51 female potential victims and 5 suspected human traffickers. Do you see it yet?
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  24. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
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    RT @EstherNL3: Het nieuws dat premier Jetten en zijn verloofde via een draagmoeder een kind verwachten, heeft veel kritiek geoogst die vervolgens werd afgedaan als 'homohaat'. In De Andere Krant betoog ik waarom dat onterecht is en schijn ik het licht op de enige wiens stem in het debat verloren lijkt te gaan: die van het kind. Lees hier het artikel:
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  25. StopSurrogacyNowUK✓@WombsNotForRent
    Baby Poppy was born through surrogacy and was just over 2 months old when along with among 20 other children, she was removed from a California mansion amid serious child-abuse allegations. Mother Tronderrica James, says she was lied to, suffered a life-threatening birth and was prevented from saying goodbye to her baby. This is #surrogacy.
    Olivia Maurel @maurel_olivia
    She nearly DIED giving birth to their baby. After a massive haemorrhage and emergency C-section, she wasn’t even allowed to say goodbye to the little girl she’d carried for nine months. That baby ended up in a mansion with 20 other children, all later removed amid horrific abuse allegations. The couple? They ran their own surrogacy agencies. How many more women and children have to suffer? BAN SURROGACY.
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  26. Olivia Maurel✓@maurel_olivia
    She nearly DIED giving birth to their baby. After a massive haemorrhage and emergency C-section, she wasn’t even allowed to say goodbye to the little girl she’d carried for nine months. That baby ended up in a mansion with 20 other children, all later removed amid horrific abuse allegations. The couple? They ran their own surrogacy agencies. How many more women and children have to suffer? BAN SURROGACY.
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    RT @YungFierens: Draagmoederschap zet de deur open voor uitbuiting en misbruik van de meest kwetsbare vrouwen. Misdrijven gelijkaardig of erger dan wat we zien bij adoptie.
    Olivia Maurel @maurel_olivia
    🇪🇸 SPAIN. A young Peruvian woman was allegedly recruited online to become a surrogate for €20,000. She was shipped to Spain. She agreed to surrogacy through artificial insemination…But artificial insemination was too expensive for the couple. So, according to prosecutors, they demanded SEX instead. What followed was allegedly a nightmare of RAPE, SEXUAL EXPLOITATION, VIOLENCE, THREATS and CAPTIVITY. Prosecutors are now seeking more than 70 YEARS in prison for each accused. This is surrogacy.
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