I moved to SF from london 9 months ago. hot take: it's only about 20% better living here than just visiting 3-4 times a year
- before I moved here I'd come to SF once every 4 months on average, usually planned around 1-2 big events. i'd be extremely efficient with my time, planning a bunch of back to back meetings (people often thought I already lived here as I saw them as much as they saw anyone else here)
- this required real discipline, it's a long flight and often the events on their own weren't enough reason to make the trip
- now that i live here, i don't go out of my way to try to meet new people, more of it is organic but lower volume
- the whole group think thing is real and you can get as much of that as you want from X
- just attending events is probably not worth your time
pros:
- damn this city is so beautiful. having some of the most stunning nature a 20 min drive away never gets old. coming from london, the weather here is perfect (never too hot but _way_ more sunlight)
- there are definitely friends i wouldn't have made if i didn't live here
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